Most people who have chosen to have a loved one cremated opt to have a memorial service instead of a funeral service. This is because a memorial allows you to bring the ashes in an urn to the service. Many people do not just want to have a standard service, however. Everyone is unique, so why not ensure that the memorial service has touches of your loved one’s personality? Funeral service and cremations providers have some tips that can help.
Instead of playing the same kind of hymns or classical pieces that everyone expects, you can put together a great playlist of music that your loved one enjoyed. They do not have to be somber in mood. You can even find a cover band or musicians that can play those pieces live at the service. It can really add a special touch to have music that meant something to the deceased.
Most memorial services have a large portrait of the deceased on display. This may be too formal for your preference. Instead, you can ask people to bring pictures that they love and make a collage out of all of them. Not only will you be creating something unique and beautiful, but you will also be allowing guests to feel involved. It can provide them with some closure to be active in the memorial service.
There are unique locations that can be better than hiring a reception room or a space at a funeral home. If your loved one enjoyed a specific location, like a park, or if they loved the beach, you should consider having the memorial service there. Since you might be thinking of scattering the ashes, it can be a great option to have the service where you are planning on doing so.
Most people have favorite flowers or plants. Why not decorate the location with those instead of with much more formal funeral wreaths? If they loved nature, have guests bring in wild flowers or anything they may have growing in their gardens. Memorial services do not have to be somber, so consider making huge bouquets of colorful flowers of all kinds if that is something that your loved one would have enjoyed.
The memorial service could even be a celebration of life. This means that you will not be mourning a death but honoring the life of the person who is gone. A life celebration is more like a party, with fun music, activities that recall the loved one, and so much more. It can be a great way to honor a unique person.
A memorial service does not have to be identical to all of the other ones that you may have attended. Your loved one deserves to have a personalized honoring of his or her life. To help you plan this kind of event, contact Cutler Funeral Home and Cremation Center by visiting them at 2900 Monroe St La Porte, IN 46350 or by calling (219) 362-2828.